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Your Ultimate Guide to First Look Wedding Photos

  • Karen Clerkin
  • Jan 5
  • 4 min read

When it comes to wedding photography, one of the most magical moments I get to capture is the first look. It’s that intimate, unscripted moment when the couple sees each other for the first time on their big day. If you’re planning your wedding and wondering whether to include a first look session, you’re in the right place. I’m here to share everything you need to know about first look wedding photos, from what they are to why they might be perfect for your day.


What Is a Guide to First Look Photos?


A first look is a private moment before the ceremony where the couple sees each other for the first time, usually with the photographer present to capture the genuine reactions. It’s a chance to share a quiet, emotional moment away from the crowd, and it often results in some of the most heartfelt photos of the entire day.


Here’s why a first look is becoming increasingly popular:


  • Emotional connection: You get to see each other’s reactions without the pressure of an audience.

  • More relaxed portraits: After the first look, couples tend to feel more comfortable in front of the camera.

  • Better timing: It frees up time after the ceremony for mingling and celebrations.

  • Weather flexibility: You can plan your photos around the best light, not just the ceremony schedule.


If you want your wedding photos to tell a story full of genuine emotion, a first look is a fantastic way to start.


Eye-level view of a groom waiting nervously in a garden
Groom waiting for the first look moment

How to Prepare for Your First Look Session


Preparation is key to making your first look photos truly special. Here are some tips to help you get ready:


  1. Choose the right location

    Pick a spot that’s private but beautiful. It could be a garden, a quiet corner of your venue, or somewhere meaningful to you both.


  2. Plan your timing

    Schedule the first look at a time when the light is soft, usually an hour or two before the ceremony. This also gives you time for portraits afterward.


  3. Keep it intimate

    Limit the number of people present. Usually, just the two of you and your photographer is perfect.


  4. Communicate with your photographer

    Let your photographer know what kind of vibe you want—whether it’s playful, emotional, or a mix of both.


  5. Relax and be present

    This moment is about you two. Take a deep breath, soak it in, and don’t worry about posing too much.


By following these steps, you’ll create a relaxed atmosphere that allows your love to shine through in every shot.


Is it better to do a first look or not?


This is a question I get asked a lot, and honestly, it depends on what feels right for you. Here are some pros and cons to help you decide:


Pros of a First Look


  • Private moment: You get to share a special time without the eyes of guests.

  • Less stress: Seeing each other beforehand can calm nerves.

  • More photo time: You can get most of your portraits done before the ceremony, leaving more time for celebrations.

  • Better lighting: You’re not restricted to the ceremony time for photos.


Cons of a First Look


  • Breaking tradition: Some couples want to keep the moment of seeing each other for the first time walking down the aisle.

  • Less suspense: The surprise element is gone for the ceremony.

  • Emotional pacing: Some feel the emotional peak should be saved for the ceremony.


Ultimately, it’s about what feels right for your relationship and your wedding day vibe. If you want a relaxed, intimate moment captured beautifully, a first look is a brilliant choice.


Close-up view of a bride’s bouquet resting on a wooden bench
Bride’s bouquet ready for the first look session

Tips for Stunning First Look Wedding Photos


To make sure your first look photos are as stunning as possible, here are some insider tips from my experience:


  • Wear your full wedding attire

Seeing each other in your full outfits adds to the magic and makes the photos more authentic.


  • Focus on natural reactions

Don’t force smiles or poses. Let your emotions flow naturally—tears, laughter, and all.


  • Use the environment

Incorporate the surroundings to add depth and interest to your photos.


  • Include small details

Sometimes a close-up of hands holding or a gentle touch tells the story better than a wide shot.


  • Trust your photographer

Let your photographer guide you through the moment. They know how to capture the best angles and emotions.


These tips will help you create timeless images that you’ll cherish forever.


Making the Most of Your Wedding Day with First Look Photos


Including a first look in your wedding day timeline can make everything run smoother. Here’s how to integrate it seamlessly:


  • Start with the first look

This sets a calm, joyful tone for the day.


  • Follow with couple portraits

Take advantage of the relaxed mood to get a variety of shots.


  • Group and family photos

These can happen before or after the ceremony, depending on your schedule.


  • Ceremony and reception

With portraits done, you can enjoy your guests without rushing.


By planning your day this way, you reduce stress and maximise your time with loved ones.


If you want to see some real examples and get inspired, check out this first look wedding photos gallery from my recent weddings.



Choosing to have a first look is a personal decision, but it’s one that can add so much joy and beauty to your wedding day. If you’re looking for a photographer who understands how to capture those candid, emotional moments with an artistic touch, I’d love to chat. Let’s make your wedding day memories unforgettable.


Ready to create your own magical first look? Reach out and let’s start planning!

 
 
 

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Wedding photographer based in Hilltown, County Down, covering weddings across Northern Ireland and the Republic of Ireland.

Most frequently covering weddings across South Down, county Armagh, Count louth, Count Monaghan & County Cavan

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